The stuff

As parents the example we set is important. In our world full of advertising and  marketing it is tempting to get caught up in the idea that we need things. This also teaches our kids that having stuff is important. Yet these things that seemed so necessary ultimately become clutter.

I'm becoming so much more aware of what I buy and the motivation for buying it, but that marketing is pretty slick. And to be honest, I have plenty of stuff that I'm sifting through because I don't use it and for some things never have used it. What a waste. I want to set an example to my children and grandchildren that relationships, not things, are important, and that when we remove the things that get in the way, we have more fulfilling and meaningful lives.

Here's a link for one of my favorite blogs that i follow that addresses this very thing.

http://www.becomingminimalist.com/our-example/

Hope your enjoy the read.

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